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<channel><title><![CDATA[RHONCARTER.COM - Rhon\'s Old Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Rhon\'s Old Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2026 04:40:40 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[READ MORE HERE!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/read-more-here]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/read-more-here#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 14:20:57 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/read-more-here</guid><description><![CDATA[Click Here for New Blog [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div><a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://rhoncarter.substack.com" target="_blank"><span class="wsite-button-inner">Click Here for New Blog</span></a><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/1_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div><div id="205798210564353488" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe src="https://rhoncarter.substack.com/embed" width="480" height="320" style="border:1px solid #EEE; background:white;" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"></iframe></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[MINISTRY LEADER and Primal Question 1 "AM I SAFE"]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/ministry-leader-and-primal-question-1-am-i-safe]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/ministry-leader-and-primal-question-1-am-i-safe#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 15:33:44 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/ministry-leader-and-primal-question-1-am-i-safe</guid><description><![CDATA[ &#8203;Ministry isn&rsquo;t always safe.&#8203;I wish it were.But too often, behind the worship sets, the sermons, the meetings, and the endless pouring out&hellip; there&rsquo;s a constant scanning. A quiet question playing in the background:&nbsp;Am I Safe?rhoncarter.substack.com/p/when-ministry-feels-dangerous-the  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/1.png?1753976116" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)"><br /><br />&#8203;Ministry isn&rsquo;t always safe.<br />&#8203;I wish it were.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)">But too often, behind the worship sets, the sermons, the meetings, and the endless pouring out&hellip; there&rsquo;s a constant scanning. A quiet question playing in the background:&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)">Am I Safe?<br /><br /><a href="https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/when-ministry-feels-dangerous-the" target="_blank">rhoncarter.substack.com/p/when-ministry-feels-dangerous-the</a></em><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[July 17th, 2025]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-20254390880]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-20254390880#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 13:57:01 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-20254390880</guid><description><![CDATA[Click Image to Read More The Hands of the Artist represents the dedication and skill required to lead effectively in worship and music ministry. I believe that becoming a better leader involves more than just talent&mdash;it&rsquo;s about character. Our call is to lead with excellence, humility, and spiritual integrity.READ MORE&#8203;www.rhoncarter.substack.com  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/component-hands-of-the-artist-and' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/hands-of-the-artist-and-pq-2.png?1752760649" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Click Image to Read More</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)"><br />The Hands of the Artist represents the dedication and skill required to lead effectively in worship and music ministry. I believe that becoming a better leader involves more than just talent&mdash;it&rsquo;s about character. Our call is to lead with excellence, humility, and spiritual integrity.<br /><br />READ MORE<br />&#8203;www.rhoncarter.substack.com</span><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[July 17th, 2025]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-2025]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-2025#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 13:53:48 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/july-17th-2025</guid><description><![CDATA[Click Image to Read More True leadership walks in humility, shows up faithfully, and is willing to serve even when no one sees.Read more about how the Component "The Feet Of Service" helps us serve others better when we know our Primal Question.&#8203;www.rhoncarter.substack.com  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/component-feet-of-service-and-the' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/feet-of-service-and-pq.png?1752760459" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Click Image to Read More</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)"><br />True leadership walks in humility, shows up faithfully, and is willing to serve even when no one sees.<br />Read more about how the Component "The Feet Of Service" helps us serve others better when we know our Primal Question.<br /><br />&#8203;www.rhoncarter.substack.com</span><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Six Components for a Healthy Worship Ministry and the Primal Question]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-ministry-and-the-primal-question]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-ministry-and-the-primal-question#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 13:49:29 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-ministry-and-the-primal-question</guid><description><![CDATA[Click Image to Read More &#8203;The&nbsp;Voice of Discipleship&nbsp;is a crucial part of a healthy worship and music ministry. Choosing songs is more than just matching lyrics to themes&mdash;it&rsquo;s forming spiritual identity through melody and message.Read about all the Components and how your Primal Question relates to them all atwww.rhoncarter.substack.com  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/component-voice-of-discipleship-and' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/voice-of-discipleship-and-pq.png?1752760220" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Click Image to Read More</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)"><br />&#8203;The&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)">Voice of Discipleship</strong><span style="color:rgb(85, 78, 61)">&nbsp;is a crucial part of a healthy worship and music ministry. Choosing songs is more than just matching lyrics to themes&mdash;it&rsquo;s forming spiritual identity through melody and message.</span><br /><br />Read about all the Components and how your Primal Question relates to them all at<br />www.rhoncarter.substack.com</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Six Components for a Healthy Worship and Music Ministry and the PRIMAL QUESTION]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-and-music-ministry-and-the-primal-question]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-and-music-ministry-and-the-primal-question#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 12:09:01 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/six-components-for-a-healthy-worship-and-music-ministry-and-the-primal-question</guid><description><![CDATA[click on image to read &#8203;Each&nbsp;Primal Question&nbsp;brings a unique strength to the way we disciple people through music.But when we don&rsquo;t know our question&mdash;or when we&rsquo;re scrambling to get it answered&mdash;our discipleship can drift toward performance, control, or fear.  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/component-heart-of-worship-and-the' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/editor/1.png?1750939869" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">click on image to read</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><font size="5"><br />&#8203;Each&nbsp;<span style="font-weight:700">Primal Question</span>&nbsp;brings a unique strength to the way we disciple people through music.</font><br /><br /><br /><span><font size="5">But when we don&rsquo;t know our question&mdash;or when we&rsquo;re scrambling to get it answered&mdash;our discipleship can drift toward performance, control, or fear.</font></span><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Way We Father through our Emotional Need...]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-way-we-father-through-our-emotional-need]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-way-we-father-through-our-emotional-need#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2025 12:40:09 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-way-we-father-through-our-emotional-need</guid><description><![CDATA[click image to read more (Click Image to Read More)&#8203;This Father&rsquo;s Day, I&rsquo;m reflecting on how our deepest emotional needs shape the way we love and lead our families.In this post, I walk through the seven Primal Questions and how each one influences your fathering style&mdash;for better or worse. I also share a personal story about how understanding my own question,&nbsp;&ldquo;Am I Wanted?&rdquo;, and my son&rsquo;s,&nbsp;&ldquo;Am I Successful?&rdquo;, deepened our relationshi [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:382px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/the-way-we-father-how-your-deepest?r=54g2s0' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/substack-images-10.png?1749732319" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">click image to read more</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><font size="3"><strong>(Click Image to Read More)<br />&#8203;</strong><br /><strong>This Father&rsquo;s Day, I&rsquo;m reflecting on how our deepest emotional needs shape the way we love and lead our families.</strong><span>In this post, I walk through the seven Primal Questions and how each one influences your fathering style&mdash;for better or worse. I also share a personal story about how understanding my own question,&nbsp;</span><em>&ldquo;Am I Wanted?&rdquo;</em><span>, and my son&rsquo;s,&nbsp;</span><em>&ldquo;Am I Successful?&rdquo;</em><span>, deepened our relationship. If you&rsquo;re a dad<br />&#8203;who wants to grow in self-awareness and grace, this one&rsquo;s for you.</span></font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Pain of New Beginnings]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-pain-of-new-beginnings]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-pain-of-new-beginnings#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2025 11:07:07 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/the-pain-of-new-beginnings</guid><description><![CDATA[Click Image to Read More What happens when the music stops&mdash;unexpectedly? In this heartfelt post, I share the story of a worship pastor who was let go from his ministry role and found himself in a season of confusion, grief, and loss. But the story doesn&rsquo;t end there. This is a testimony of how God met him in the darkness, led him through the unknown, and used the crucible of pain to bring deeper purpose, renewed identity, and unexpected blessing. If you&rsquo;ve ever faced a hard tran [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/when-the-music-stops-one-worship' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/substack-images-9.png?1749122121" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Click Image to Read More</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><font size="3">What happens when the music stops&mdash;unexpectedly? In this heartfelt post, I share the story of a worship pastor who was let go from his ministry role and found himself in a season of confusion, grief, and loss. But the story doesn&rsquo;t end there. This is a testimony of how God met him in the darkness, led him through the unknown, and used the crucible of pain to bring deeper purpose, renewed identity, and unexpected blessing. If you&rsquo;ve ever faced a hard transition&mdash;or know someone who has&mdash;this story will speak to your heart and remind you: God is still composing something beautiful.</font></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Want to be a better communicator with your team? Start asking better questions.]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/want-to-be-a-better-communicator-with-your-team-start-asking-better-questions]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/want-to-be-a-better-communicator-with-your-team-start-asking-better-questions#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 11:30:43 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/want-to-be-a-better-communicator-with-your-team-start-asking-better-questions</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						      Click Image to Read the Blog    					 								 					 						  Click Image to Read the Blog  Jesus didn&rsquo;t lead by dominating the conversation&mdash;He led by drawing people out. He asked questions that opened hearts, clarified motives, and deepened relationships.What if you did the same in your staff meetings? With your volunteers? During hard conversations?This week, I&rsquo;m sharing&nbsp;how worship and ministry leaders can strengthen team culture and clar [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a href='https://rhoncarter.substack.com/p/the-way-of-the-question-church-staff' target='_blank'> <img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/substack-images-8_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Click Image to Read the Blog</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong><font size="4">Click Image to Read the Blog</font></strong><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="2">Jesus didn&rsquo;t lead by dominating the conversation&mdash;He led by drawing people out. He asked questions that opened hearts, clarified motives, and deepened relationships.</font><br /><font size="2">What if you did the same in your staff meetings? With your volunteers? During hard conversations?</font><br /><font size="2">This week, I&rsquo;m sharing&nbsp;<strong>how worship and ministry leaders can strengthen team culture and clarity</strong>&nbsp;by learning to communicate like Jesus&mdash;with questions that invite, not interrogate.</font><br /><font size="2">Check it out and let&rsquo;s lead more like Jesus.</font></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[May 22nd, 2025]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/may-22nd-2025]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/may-22nd-2025#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2025 10:48:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.rhoncarter.com/rhons-old-blog/may-22nd-2025</guid><description><![CDATA[  Click to Read More     Worship leaders carry more than a mic on Sunday.&#8203;This week&rsquo;s blog dives into the&nbsp;real&nbsp;distractions that show up right before you&rsquo;re supposed to lead.&#8203;  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://open.substack.com/pub/rhoncarter/p/distractions-in-disguise-what-worship?r=54g2s0&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Click to Read More</span> </a> <div style="height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://open.substack.com/pub/rhoncarter/p/distractions-in-disguise-what-worship?r=54g2s0&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false' target='_blank'><img src="https://www.rhoncarter.com/uploads/2/8/7/1/2871987/published/substack-images-6.png?1747910955" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><font size="5">Worship leaders carry more than a mic on Sunday.<br />&#8203;<br />This week&rsquo;s blog dives into the&nbsp;<em>real</em>&nbsp;distractions that show up right before you&rsquo;re supposed to lead.</font><br /><font size="3">&#8203;</font><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>